Manhattan family law attorney Richard Shum (https://www.romanshum.com/blog/8-tips-for-a-healthy-marriage-separation-process/) releases a new article explaining the 8 tips for a healthy marriage separation process. The lawyer mentions that many couples aim for their divorce process to be as civil as possible. However, the initial stages of separation can be a stressful time, especially for couples who have children.
“If you’ve come to the conclusion that separation is the logical next step for your relationship, it’s safe to say that a lot of thought has already transpired. However, during this emotional time, it’s helpful to take things slowly and focus on your own well-being. This pause in your relationship can give you more bandwidth to digest this significant transition in your life. It can also help you understand what you would like to accomplish in your next chapter,” the Manhattan family law attorney says.
The lawyer mentions that building a support network with your close friends can be beneficial. However, it is important to keep in mind to only confide in those people who are able to respect the decisions about the separation. People may want o give out their advice but ultimately, it is the couple who is deciding on the matters surrounding their separation.
Attorney Richard Shum adds that it is also important for both spouses to be courteous to one another. Maintaining civility is very important in helping spouses work together. Patience and understanding in discussing the matters involved in the separation can help set the tone of the relationship in the future.
In the article, the lawyer says, “You should also discuss your expectations about whether or not you will start seeing other people during the separation if you think that it will lead to a divorce. Even though you both are still legally married, it’s important to respect each other’s space. Discuss how you will communicate important information and follow through with what was discussed to avoid conflict.”
Lastly, the divorce lawyer emphasizes that having a family law lawyer can help the couple ensure they have all the legal support they need when it comes to determining the best child support order for their family. A skilled attorney can help the couple draft their agreements and make sure that the agreement is legally enforceable.
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